{"id":1507,"date":"2011-04-22T11:21:00","date_gmt":"2011-04-22T18:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/somatics.com\/wordpress\/patients-patience-and-impatience\/"},"modified":"2011-04-22T11:21:00","modified_gmt":"2011-04-22T18:21:00","slug":"patients-patience-and-impatience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/patients-patience-and-impatience\/","title":{"rendered":"Patients, Patience, and Impatience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hello, again, Folks,<\/p>\n<p>Today, I speak of a peculiar paradox of somatic education &#8212; something expressed in a Tibetan saying I heard, recently:&nbsp; &#8220;When things are urgent, go slower.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>People in pain have a certain urgency.&nbsp; No surprise.<\/p>\n<p>In their urgency, they go for the &#8220;quick fix&#8221; &#8212; the pain med, the quick adjustment, the quick stretch, the hour of bodywork.&nbsp; These quick fixes rarely produce either a complete or a lasting result.<\/p>\n<p>The reason:&nbsp; they don&#8217;t address the problem as it is, but only the surface appearance.<\/p>\n<p>Somatic education is peculiar in this regard:&nbsp; the processes we use during clinical sessions are mostly slow-motion action patterns &#8212; we go slower &#8212; but the changes that result come very quickly.<\/p>\n<p>The reason:&nbsp; the changes sought through somatic education (generally, pain relief) come by means of an internalized learning process that involves new physiological adaptation.&nbsp; Adaptation and learning require, inevitably, at least two things:&nbsp; attention and intention.<\/p>\n<p>Attention and intention go together.&nbsp; To exercise an intention, we must direct our attention to what we are doing.<\/p>\n<p>The thing about attention is that it is not instantaneous; it fades in.&nbsp; Test for yourself.&nbsp; Look away from the screen toward anything and notice that it takes a good part of a second even to focus on it.&nbsp; The same is true of music.&nbsp; Turn on the radio into the middle of a piece of music and notice that it takes some seconds to recognize even one with which you are familiar.<\/p>\n<p>When taking in new information, going slower helps you &#8220;catch&#8221; it and take it in.<\/p>\n<p>Then, and only then, you can apply your intention to it.<\/p>\n<p>Most forms of therapy require little or no attention on the part of a patient; result:&nbsp; little or no exercise of intention and little or no lasting change!<\/p>\n<p>So, as a somatic educator, I find that one of the most common bits of coaching I have to give with my clients (\/patients, although I don&#8217;t use the word) is <u>to slow down<\/u>.&nbsp; Doing things too fast, too hard, and with too little attention (&#8220;mindfulness&#8221;) is a common American fault (and a popular editing technique of advertising and the entertainment media which perpetuates and reinforces this fault&#8211; sequences of &#8220;split-second video clips&#8221;).&nbsp; <u><b>Too many people are &#8220;A-D-D&#8221; ! ! !<\/b><\/u>&nbsp; That makes them accident-prone (and generally, sloppy and error prone).&nbsp; They must slow down &#8212; not because it&#8217;s easier (generally, it&#8217;s not), not because they need a rest (which is generally true), but because they need to pay more attention and to exercise intention more carefully.&nbsp; They need to work smarter, not harder.<\/p>\n<p>If people don&#8217;t slow down, they end up doing things the way they habitually do them and, by repetition, reinforcing the very thing they are wanting to get out of &#8212; the movement patterns and functional habits that cause their pain.&nbsp; They have to slow down enough to do the things they do in a new way.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to somatic exercises (a way people can relieve their own pain without direct coaching by a somatic educator), people must exercise patience.&nbsp; In this case, the patience they must exercise is two-fold:&nbsp; (1) they must slow down in what they&#8217;re doing (somatic exercises) enough to feel clearly what they are doing and to do it in good form (not merely count repetitions) and (2) they must persist in a somatic exercise program long enough to obtain its designed-in effect (entailing, generally, some days or weeks of practice &#8212; and some hours of experience).&nbsp; The result:&nbsp; substantial and durable improvement &#8212; faster and more durable than by conventional therapeutic, &#8220;low-attention&#8221; methods.<\/p>\n<p>If patients are impatient for relief, they must be patient so they can get it more quickly than has previously been possible.<\/p>\n<p>Only once they have slowed down and made the necessary changes can they return to &#8220;the speed of life&#8221; and keep their new-found freedom and well-being &#8212; or even go faster than before and still keep it together.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;A man of true means,<br \/>\nwhatever the day&#8217;s pace<br \/>\nkeeps his wits about him<br \/>\nand however a fine offer be presented to him<br \/>\nkeeps a level head.<\/p>\n<p>What ruler of countless chariots<br \/>\nwould make himself laughing stock,<br \/>\nfool of the realm,<br \/>\nwith pace beyond rein,<br \/>\nspeed beyond helm?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8212; Lao Tzu<\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">SEE MORE ABOUT SOMATIC EXERCISES<\/span><\/b><br \/>\n<b><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/somatics.com\/SLEx2.htm\">An Entirely New Class of Therapeutic Exercises<\/a> (article)<\/span><\/b><br \/>\n<b><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/somatics.com\/page7.htm\">Software for Your Body<\/a> (instructional programs)<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Add your comment &#8212; what you would like to ask or tell.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello, again, Folks, Today, I speak of a peculiar paradox of somatic education &#8212; something expressed in a Tibetan saying I heard, recently:&nbsp; &#8220;When things are urgent, go slower.&#8221; People in pain have a certain urgency.&nbsp; No surprise. In their urgency, they go for the &#8220;quick fix&#8221; &#8212; the pain med, the quick adjustment, the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/patients-patience-and-impatience\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Patients, Patience, and Impatience&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":418,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/418"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1507\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somatics.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}